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Posted by kim on September 12, 2008
I obviously thought wrong. Last week, my daughter showed me a little bump under her arm, but I wrote it off to razor burn. Then she got a lesion on her back, and I wrote that off as a bug bite. When her left front and back upper torso all broke out, I thought it was poison ivy/oak from playing in the park and took her to the Urgent Clinic. Being the weekend, we waited an eternity for the doctor to tell us it’s shingles, and there was nothing we can do about it. Nothing?
I then researched shingles to read that anyone who has had chicken pox is at risk, but shingles itself is not contagious. I used to work in a dermatology office where we’d treat elderly for shingles, usually brought on my stress, so knew there surely had to be something to stop my daughter crying from the hurting and itching.
So, I made an appointment with our local physician assistant who prescribed Acyclovir (an antiviral med), Prednisolone (steroid) and Triamcinolone Cream. She is now on her way to recovery! Once a person has shingles, they aren’t likely to have them again, thank God.
Even though stress is the main culprit to aggitate shingles, it can occur for any reason at all. Being a single mom of four, I’ve been my fair share of stress, but have never had shingles, but I’ve also never had the chicken pox!
If you read Macy & Mallory’s NICU story, they had to be given the VZig antibody to ward off the chicken pox since my then three-year old son broke out lesions. When I said I had never had the chicken pox, they wouldn’t let me see the babies until I had a blood test showing I was immune to the varicella zoster virus. So either I acquired the immunity somehow or else I had a mild case of the chicken pox at some point in time and my mother nor I never knew it.
The VZig was only a temporary prophylactic, and because the twins were given that, they couldn’t be given Chickenpox varicella vaccine to ward off the disease permanently. They eventually contracted the chicken pox in second grade and missed picture day that year.
My daughter’s shingles…
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Fostering a sharing and caring environment at home is nothing short of difficult. Especially for twins, who are often times expected to be each other’s best friends, expectations can be overwhelming.
Bunk beds for your twins can grant them individual spaces while still learning valuable lessons about compromise and cooperation. The bunk bed helps save space in the kids’ room while your twins work together toward a common goal, whether it be making the bed or deciding who gets to sleep on the top bunk. Comfortable, secure, stylish, and a space saver, bunk beds can also be a vital learning tool for teaching your kids an important lesson in cohabitation.
Posted by melissacruz on September 8, 2008
I have had two premature pregnancies, my first not ending happily. I had my daughter on Feb 1, 1997, when I was 20 gestational weeks pregnant and she weighed 1 pound and was 12 inches long. I had started to bleed and went to emergency, a doctor checked me out and said that I was fine but I just had a feeling I was not. Right before I was about to be released they did an ultrasound to assure me that everything was going to be fine. BUT, that is when they realized that my cervix was open and I was dilating already. The nurses right away put me in a slight vertical position, with my legs elevated. They also gave me medication through IVs to try and stop the contractions. The contractions were stopped for about 3 days and on the 4th day my doctor came in and told me that I was going to have to make a decision on if I gave birth anytime soon, if I wanted them to try and revive my baby or just let her be? I was so perplexed on what they were asking me because I was not thinking that I would have to make a decision like this. My doctor explained to me, at this early gestational age, my daughter would only have about a 5% chance of living if they tried to keep her alive and even then she may be brain damaged. Keep in mind this was 11 years ago, so the technology was not as great as it now. We decided that we were not going to try and revive her and make her suffer, but my doctor told me that if he felt that our daughter was more internally developed then they thought, he would do his best to help her.
I had my daughter on Feb. 1, 1997 at 1059pm and she passed away on Feb. 2, 1997 at 1201am. I thought my world was over, it was the most horrifying pain I had ever felt. I thought I was not going to be able to get over my daughter’s lost. We had a burial for her and we were supported by my family and friends which helped me along the way. It took a long time (years) before I was able to talk about it without crying or getting choked up.
I again became pregnant in 2000, and when I first found out, I was so scared that I was going to experience what I had with my daughter, that I was not really able to be happy. My doctor had declared me having a weak cervix and put me on semi bed rest for the duration of my pregnancy with my son. At 31 gestational weeks, I again started to bleed and thought that I was going to experience the pain of losing a child again. Even though I was farther along in my pregnancy, I was still very scared. I went into emergency and the doctors again kept me on IVs trying to stop the contractions. They were able to stop the contractions for about 4 days until my water broke on April 3, 2001. My doctor had calmed me down a bit assuring that there was a better chance for my son to live because I was further along (11 more weeks, than with my daughter). I gave birth to my son on April 3, 2001 at 1028am and he weighed 2 pounds 11 oz. The doctors immediately grabbed my son and the team of doctors inserted a ventilator to help him breath. My son was wheeled away into NICU. I was so upset that I was not able to neither hold nor comfort him at this time. My son’s father followed the doctor’s while they took him to NICU, so I was somewhat relieved that his father was with him.
My son ended up being hospitalized for 2 months before he was able to come home. He came home on an apnea monitor and had really bad reflux. At the time he came home, he weight a bit over 8 pounds. I was so excited for my son to finally be healthy enough to come home but at the same time I was so scared because I did not think I would be able to care for him properly. Although, I felt comfortable with having the apnea monitor because it would alert me if he were to stop breathing. I had to keep up with doctor appointments for my son to be seen by specialist to make sure he was developing correctly. My son was also having a therapist come in once a week to work with his muscles and learning abilities. I felt safe knowing that he was being closely monitored. My son did not have many problems when he came home and was averaging the size of babies his age.
My son is now 7 years old and is very healthy. I am very lucky to have him in my life and appreciate him every moment. I had kept a scrapbook of my son’s experience and he really enjoys looking at it from time to time to see how much we cared for him.
Having gone through this experience, I feel it has made me a better person because it has taught me not to take anything for granted. I think it is sometimes in human nature to take advantage but I have my little miracle to look back at and remind me that not everything is a given. We should all appreciate the moments we have in life with those that make us happy.
Melissa Cruz, California
www.helpwithstyle.com
Posted by kim on September 7, 2008
Janie McQueen, author of The New Magic Bookshelf: Finding Great Books Your Child Will Treasure Forever sent me an excerpt of her book (from Chapter 6, Book-Lovers From Babyhood) to share…
Any new parent knows that media and medical community reports are teeming with hot information about how babies’ brains are wired and influenced by their surroundings, and how synapses (brain connections) made within the first months of life are strengthened in proportion to infants’ exposure to new experiences.
Newsweek reports that fueling the neuroscience frenzy, “educational,” often electronic, products from companies like Baby Einstein, Brainy Baby, Baby Prodigy and Baby Genius now represent about a $20 billion a year industry. “Instead of Mandarin lessons, researchers now say parents would be better off spending more time talking, singing, reading and playing with their babies and toddlers. No special equipment is required,” notes the article’s author, Barbara Kantrowitz.
This more effective “affectionate interaction” can be better accomplished through baby-level introduction to the fundamental cultural blocks—literature, art and music—in simple, natural forms. In fact, children’s author Maurice Sendak credits the physical closeness of sitting on his father’s lap during reading with starting his lifelong love of literature. That physical connection can easily translate your affection for reading to your child.
Janie’s book is available for purchase from Amazon.com. Janie is also expecting twins herself – a boy and a girl due in December, which will bring her kid count up to four like me! You can find Janie over at MagicBookshelfOnline.com.
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